Sweet Friend, Just Open the Door
Hey friend,
Can I let you in on a little secret? You don’t need a perfectly clean house, fancy décor, or a gourmet meal to invite people over. I know that little voice in your head is saying, “But my home isn’t ready… What if they notice the mess? What if it’s not good enough?”
Oh, sweet friend, let’s silence that voice today. Because hospitality isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection.
It’s Not About the Décor, It’s About the People
I know you want things to be just right before you open your doors. But the people who truly love you? They’re not coming over to inspect your baseboards or judge your furniture. They’re coming because they want to be with you.
Some of my favorite memories weren’t in Pinterest-worthy homes—they were around cluttered kitchen tables, with kids running wild, coffee in hand, and hearts spilling over in conversation.
You Have Everything You Need to Host Right Now
You don’t need a bigger house, a prettier dining table, or matching dishes. You just need you. Your warmth, your kindness, your laughter—that’s what people will remember. No one will leave your home saying, “Wow, her throw pillows were perfectly fluffed.” But they will remember how you made them feel.
Let’s Kick Comparison to the Curb
Comparison is a sneaky little thing that will rob you of joy if you let it. Maybe you’ve scrolled Instagram and thought, “Her house is so beautiful. I could never host like that.” But you know what? Hospitality isn’t about competing; it’s about welcoming.
The best gatherings aren’t the fancy ones; they’re the ones filled with love. So let’s stop worrying about what our homes should look like and focus on filling them with laughter, conversation, and community.
Just Open the Door
So here’s my challenge for you, friend: Pick a day, send a text, and invite someone over. Keep it simple—coffee and store-bought cookies, takeout pizza on paper plates, or a pot of soup with a side of good conversation.
Your home is good enough. You are good enough. And the love and faith you share? That’s what truly matters.
So go ahead—open that door. I promise, you won’t regret it.
